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I am a PhD in Organizational Behavior from IIM Calcutta, I am passionate about Human Resource and an ardent admirer of life. I want to share whatever little bit knowledge I have about my field - Human Resources and leading a good life on this blog. Feel free to comment if you like my blog.

Tuesday, September 10, 2019

To do or not to do



The bright rays of the sun fell directly on his oblong face more than half of which was concealed by a dense growth of hair and the rest half was a pale skeletal structure with skin drawn tightly over it leaving room only for a meager quantity of flesh to fit in between.
For a minute his face presented the most annoying expression –a kind of when somebody is disturbed while he is deeply absorbed in his own pleasant thoughts. He irritatingly shifted his entire body to the other side of his rusted folding bed where the sun rays can’t foray and disturb his peaceful trance. Hardly five minutes of absolute silence would have passed when suddenly the digital clock ,which was gifted to him by one of his clients as a token of appreciation for his flawless service renderings , beeped on top of its voice and was successful in its objective to wake him up at last ,he, who was in the midst of another pleasant dream. Irritatingly he snatched the clock from the table rack where it was proudly standing and pressed the button on the top to shut it up. Gangu cursed it while placing it back at its usual place.
Ganganath or Gangu., as he was popularly known,  passed a casual glance sideways to catch a glimpse of his most treasured possession - Sunehri his four  year old daughter who was fast asleep ,totally oblivious of what was happening around her . Ganganath smiled as he looked into her innocent face which was busy in her own fairy dreamworld .After gently massaging her tender forehead he kissed her there.
He took a long breath reminding himself once again that it was that time of the year when school admissions etc. would start anytime from now and given his present  financial savings he would be in urgent need of something like Rs Four hundred more to get her into the finest convent school  of the locality where the children of the rich study and if he is not able to get the requisite amount then  he would have to  get her into the community school located down the street funded by the government authorities to take care of  the education needs of the less privileged. By any means Gangu never wanted Sunehri to study there and hence started saving a long time before so as to ensure that Sunehri  gets into the choicest convent school but now given that  his present amount of funding  were falling  really short of what was needed, it seemed to him that his most dreadful anticipations might come true and he would be forced to send her to community school against his wishes.
Amidst all these random thoughts he simultaneously performed his morning chores which took him less than ten minutes of his time and afterward he prepared a cup of ginger tea for himself which he savored with couple of rusks and boiled the milk for Sunehri. He took  a quick look in the mirror, grinned only to reveal his swollen gums and inspected his attire which barely changed in alternate six months. He always thought he looked handsome .In the meantime Sunehri has woken up and after washing her face came back and sat at the same place again. Gangu handed her a bowl of milk with rusks dipped in and while she was carefully sipping the warm milk, he gave her a long set of instructions regarding the activities she was supposed to perform the whole day.As soon as they finished he takes a quick look at the digital clock which blinked 8:45 am, picks up his large pile of clothes carefully wrapped in a large bedsheet and in a jiffy, was on his faithful companion - HERO bicycle which he brought some seven years ago, making his way out of the New Town Colony where he lived in a one room flat alongwith Sunehri.
After a fifteen minute ride through the sinuous streets of his city, Kolkata, he reached the campus of IIM Calcutta. After signing the daily attendance register he went to his regular working place. A huge table comfortably located in a dark corner covered with a tattered white sheet on which rested his instrument –a bit old but as magnificent as the stainless steel out of which it was made of. Gangu called himself a proud owner of the seven year old coal iron imported from China. This was his second iron after he replaced the first one which worked for nine years before getting damaged.
It has been like sixteen years that he has been into this business of washing clothes and ironing them. This profession being a family profession is passed down from generations to generations. Before him it was his father and grandfather who were into this profession.But now he no more wanted this legacy to continue.
Earlier he had his own space in the New Town colony where he lives now before he applied for a government post in IIM Calcutta which he luckily got. He is the only “dhobiwaala “ of the whole campus and is fondly called as " Gangu Da" by all the students. The salary has been better than what he used to get when he used to work all on his own , even the mid day meal and evening tea is free here in addition to the active life and lively environment of the college life  which Gangu has started loving over the years , hence making him quite reluctant to leave this place and search for job somewhere else.
He opened up a large pile of washed, sundried clothes which he has brought alongwith him from his home. He neatly arranged them in different lots according to their types .In the meantime the coals which has been put on fire were getting hot. After a few minutes he filled his iron with these burning coals on top of which he placed some unlit coals, all set to start his day’s work. With “Jai Mata Di” on his lips, he started ironing the clothes. He was all absorbed in his work when a green shirt interrupted his flow. As he was ironing that shirt he felt an uneven level across the area of the front pocket. His sun-burnt hands quickly went inside the pocket to check what was there inside. After a trivial investigation he couldn’t believe what his eyes just saw- four hundred rupee note which have gone a bit moist due to the washing and the drying process it encountered before. His heart beat went faster as his trembling hands brought those notes closer to him, tears of joy flowed out of his eyes and his lips rapidly murmuring  “ Jai  Mata Di ! “. God has finally listened to his prayers , now Sunehri would not have to  study in the community school. She would be studying in the Convent School alongwith the children of the rich. His joys knew no bound.
But the very next moment  all the gladness left him and a deep melancholy settled down upon his spirit. He said to himself “ What if the owner of this shirt suddenly  realizes that he had misplaced his four hundred rupees in this shirt and puts all the blame upon me for stealing it ! Oh my God nothing could be more frightening than that…”
Tears of joy were replaced with tears of immense pain. He cursed God “ Why did you give me this four hundred rupees only to take it back one day.. Hey Bhagwaan what is this dilemma that you have placed me in !“
He started crying bitterly in deep anguish. The words  “To do or not to do! “ rattled in his empty head constantly and he was clueless as to what he should do next. Take the money or leave the money.
After thinking a lot over the issue, he finally made up his mind to go for the money. He quickly passed the four hundred rupee notes to the most secured corner of his off-white half pants and getting back to normal started his work once again. After finishing his day’s work and  handing over the deliverable to their respective owners he  packed his pile of clothes and rode on his bicycle way back home. Never had he felt so long as he felt today to reach back home.
Days rolled by., Gangu’s  dreams came true. He was very happy - Sunehri  got admission into the finest Convent School of the locality. She was happy and was doing well in her studies. But all this happened at a cost.
The past few months were a nightmare for Gangu. Apart from the work he had on the campus he also started working overtime in his own locality. He now worked day and night so as to return back that amount of four hundred rupees as soon as possible to its owner .It had taken a toil on his health. He went terribly weak, his eyes went inside surrounded by huge dark circles , his skin became more paler than what it was before and now his body was nothing but a huge skeletal structure with long arms and legs dangling out.
Finally, after a month or so, that day came when all his hard work paid off and with great joy and a sense of big relief he went to knock on Rakesh’s door which had a silver plate numbered  217 neatly embossed on it.
Rakesh opened the door  and hurriedly said “ Yes Gangu Da ! “
Gangu replied back “ Rakesh Sahib – Your four hundred rupees. You left it in the shirt while giving me for washing it “
Rakesh in a nonchalant manner “ Hmmm..ohh I see !  I don’t even remember that I misplaced my four hundred rupees somewhere sometime back . how careless of me ! Anyways thanks Gangu Da..
I appreciate your sincerity ! “
And with a smile he closes the door back. Gangu joys knew no bound. He once again thanked God “Jai Mata Di “ and heads to do his regular work.
Tring Tring the phone rings . Rakesh picks it up and says  “Dude lets have a party man at Mc. Donalds .. God is kind enough to shower money on me ! “
Huge uproar of laughter follows ………………………….

With Love from the City of Joy -Kolkata




It has just been five months since I have been a part of this city but there’s something about Kolkata that has always intrigued me, fascinated me, allured me and this special bondage of mine with this city gets very well established after reading the account that I am presenting before you about the city of Kolkata or better known as the ‘City of Joy’.
We are living in that era of science and technology when the world around us is changing at a rapid pace – just look around yourself – the city, the people, the lifestyle etc.  everything has witnessed a massive change. Things are surely not the same as it is used to be decades back. Why to say about decades – even the things that you witnessed a second back may not remain the same in the next second. Those of you who would be reading this might be thinking as to what do I want to point to by making such references.
Well the point that I want to make is that though the world has moved really fast but this city of Kolkata still basks in its past glory barring a few patches here and there. Take a round around the city – the ancient relics of Victoria Memorial, the Esplanade, the Shahid Minar, Maidan, Park Street etc. have bravely stood the brunt of time and a ride on the horse carriage outside the Victoria memorial gives you an unforgettable  impression of having a swing ride through the Imperial Times and nothing could be a more exhilarating experience than a ride on the tram (which has been in existence since  the Imperial Raaj) from College Street to Esplanade on calm Saturday evenings with tunes of Aaj Jaane ki Zid Na Karo by Farida Khanum playing in the background. Jetty drives from Princep Ghat  over the river Hooghly, shopping a variety of trinklets in Esplanade, trying your bargaining skills at New Market or Gariahat Market, playing in Maidan, riding in steamer from Babu Ghat to Howrah while catching a glimpse of the majestic Howrah Bridge, tasting kachauris and jhal muris, phuchkas from street side vendors, long metro rides from Tollygunge to Dum-Dum, the pushy rides in overloaded buses, the Christmas Eve celebrations at St. Pauls Cathedral , offerings at Kalighat, long city possessions during Durga pujo that brings the entire city to a halt are some of the unique experiences in a lifetime that only Kolkatta offers !



A city that has produced many eminent scholars to the likes of Nobel Prize winners Amartya Sen, Rabindranath Tagore, etc  is a home to world renowned educational institutions like Jadavpur University, Presidency College , The Indian Statistical Institute and the Indian Institute of Management Calcutta. Besides being a great educational centre it has also earned the title of being the cultural capital of India. The Indian Museum (the largest Museum in the country) and the National Library (largest library in the country) are also special attractions of this place. They are a big major source of pleasure for the eyes. It is a place where as many as 13 different communities have come together, amalgamated and nurtured themselves together and grown happily with  native Bengalis for decades. You can always catch a play or a musical performance at any one of the many theatres located in Kolkata , or just spend a calm-serene evening at Nandan, the city’s cultural hub.
Travellers from all across the globe come  here especially to relish the world famous “raasugulas” and the exquisite cuisines of fish offered  here .The city’s street food and chaats have posed a big threat to the big fast food outlets and chains, which have opened here a couple of years back .For past pacers coming from Noida, Delhi and Gurgaon, the city might just make them  a bit sad for the  city has just one mall – the South City Mall but Kolkata certainly continues to appeal and captivate culture- connoisseurs.
Apart from the places, the food and the culture, the friendly people out here are the major sources of attraction. The language used by the native people is as sweet as the people residing here- these people possess a special accent. They tend to curl their tongue while speaking hence producing a nascent sound “Aww”. Besides this they are very congenial, level –headed with a cool temperament, a bit lazy though but highly intelligent and kind-hearted. And above all these people have time to talk, to laugh and to discuss everything happening around. You need not know Bengali as people out here can converse in English and Hindi.
Kolkata is a very cheap city so travelling, lodging and eating expenses will be relatively cheaper, and primarily depend on your preferences. The ubiquitous buses, taxis and metros are the much preferred form of public transport.
You can visit Kolkata during anytime of the year but in my opinion the best period to visit Kolkata is from October to February, for during the other months the city gets extremely hot and humid.
Being a metro, Kolkata is well connected to the rest of India by railways (Howrah and Sealdah railway stations houses), roadways (The Grand Trunk Road) and The Netaji Subhas Chandra Bose International Airport in Dum Dum.
So the next time you plan your holidays, keep Kolkatta on the top of the list because it’s a place worth visiting once in a lifetime !
Padmavathy Dhillon